This is the time for giving, but perhaps we can make it a time for helping as well. It can be easy to give. Whether it is sending money or going on to Amazon and clicking and sending something virtually. It takes very little thought or effort. And no real connection.

But let’s look at helping. Imagine the impact of asking someone how you can help them. Perhaps someone fighting cancer needs a ride to their doctor’s appointment? Perhaps an elder needs company? Perhaps a child needs someone to sit and play a game with them? Perhaps a teen needs to learn how to be more independent by learning how to cook meals?

What do all of these ideas, and so many more, have in common? You need to actually show up and connect with someone. You need to be present and give of your time and person. Helping takes more energy. It takes more time. It takes more of yourself. But what you get back is truly priceless! Seeing the impact that you have on others can warm you in a way that nothing else can.

So, this holiday season, as well as the rest of the year, please don’t just give. Please help!